Negatives:
-The use of improper language does not help prove any author credibility.
Using professional and clean language is a good rule of thumb when arguing.
-These users took the differing opinions too personal, leading to the attack of
other arguers. They chose to cut down the person of another opinion rather
than argue the point.
-Many were not willing to listen to the opposing opinions, this goes hand and
hand with the above negatives. Many users were opposed to hearing other opinions
to the point they ganged up on one particular user in each thread in order to
silence them.
My 5 Rules to Online Arguments
The Golden Rule: In online arguments, and arguments in general, be kind and treat
others the way you want to be treated. Respect is key in healthy debates. We will
always have different opinions than others and civil conversations about our thoughts
are healthy.
Focus on the Topic: We must realize we are arguing a point, attacking a subject, but
not our argument partner. Make sure you keep the person and the argument separate.
Prioritize: Make sure what you are arguing is actually worth the time and effort to fight.
Some differences are better left alone as an argument will do nothing to fix or better a
situation. Sometimes it's better to hold your tongue.
Ears (or eyes) Open: Allow those you are arguing to voice their views. Do not take up
all of the space in the room. One who is good at arguing lets the opposing side have room
to speak before giving a rebuttal.
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